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emendatio.org

Thursday, January 24th, 2008

We’ve moved to a top level domain as this project is growing more and more. From now on we can be found at http://www.emendatio.org ! Happy blogging :)
PS: If you’re interesting in contributing or have an interesting topic you’d like to talk about, contact us and you’ll get the chance to post your story here.

How to handle conflicts.

Sunday, November 4th, 2007

A few weeks before I spoke about how to learn to accept criticism. I spoke with a few friends about this topic and most of them argued they’d have not only problems with the criticism itself but would bild up inner conflicts with themselves and the people giving the criticism. Matching this topic I just found an article in Scott Youngs blog about 7 strategies on how to handle conflicts. Scotts seven strategies are:

  1. Know How holds the power
  2. Become the meditator
  3. Don’t allow passion to drown reason
  4. Know whether the conflict is personal
  5. Appeal to selfishness
  6. Aplogizing isn’t losing
  7. You can’t control both sides

Scott gives detailed explainations to all seven strategies and concludes with the fact that conflict are of course part of your life. Therefore: Avoidance and engagement are both poor strategies for managing conflict. Life is filled with conflicts that you will need to move past. Avoiding all of them would be neglecting your duty to yourself and others.

Link: Scott H. Young - 7 Strategies to Handle Conflict

Genus emendatio.

Sunday, September 2nd, 2007

This is a new little project I was thinking about for few months now. emendatio will be a collection of articles, texts and links on topics like self improvement, motivation, productivity, success etc.

Look forward to see more stuff coming up soon.